With the emergence of new technologies all over, people have revolutionized the way things are done in almost every aspect of their lives, sex not being an exception. With the ability to connect with people throughout the world, more and more people are getting into cybersex with the aim of getting the satisfaction they are seeking.
Explained, cybersex is using technology to elicit sexual stimulation for you or another person. Being it watching pornography on the internet, sending nude pictures on Whatsapp or even sexting with a total stranger; there is so much that people are doing just to connect sexually.
While there may be different ways to cybersex, one thing remains common; it needs to be good. For cybersex to be enjoyed, whether, by complete strangers or distant lovers, some things need to be done first. Some of these include:
Understand what excites you
The whole point about cybersex is getting to what you like and what will most likely make you happy. Understanding what you will make it easy for you to enjoy the whole activity. Whether it is through phone texts or by a cam, you will be able to communicate your needs to the other party when you exactly know what you want.
This is especially important when you are dealing with a total stranger. For a person you are used to, chances are that you already know what they like and how they like it. The case for a stranger is however different. Having them explain what they will make it easy for you to fulfill their wild desires. You also need to be ready and able to disclose all that you like doing so that the other party understands how to please you.
For instance, if you intend to have phone sex, you will need to vividly describe the scenarios if your partner is to enjoy it. Creativity and imagination also come in handy as you will need to come up with amazing ideas that will excite your partner.
There is nothing worse than a rushed cybersex session. For it to be effective, you need to invest some time away from all other distractions and activities. The first thing in making a session enjoyable is showing your partner that they mean a lot to you by dedicating time to them. By so doing, they will feel appreciated and will, therefore, be willing to do more than you would have normally expected them to.
The above are some good guidelines that can help you improve your cybersex sessions. One important thing to have in mind is that both of you must be into it. If one party has been coerced into it, it will not be good. Agreeing cybersex will make the sessions more lively and enjoyable. In the case of a long distant relationship, it is good to discuss the whole thing at lengths especially if you are both new to it.
An affair is a sexual and emotional attachment between two people where each of the parties is committed to someone else or married. It is what many people term as cheating in a relationship. Many countries are going further to legalize polygamy. This has led to increased cases of affairs. Religions hold a different option on the issue. Where Christianity strongly condemn the act, Muslim and other religions allow one man to marry many wives. An affair is the first step towards polygamy. An affair which involves a husband can be seen as okay and somehow understandable. However, an affair involving a wife is strongly condemned by even the men who have affairs.
Is it okay to have an affair?
Many people still ask this question time and time over again. No one can downplay the importance of an affair. What is the importance of having an affair?
Helps one achieve more
Many people see affairs as channels and way to waste money. However many people who have had an affair confesses that being in an affair with someone else actually help them get motivated to work more and achieve more. Grass will always look greener on the other side they say. When one gets into an affair with someone else, he is always looking for a way to proves to the other person that he is hardworking and industrious. On the other side, the same person is looking for ways to impress his wife. This leads to one doubling his efforts to make money. This way one potential is maximized. The company or the business will have higher results.
An affair is the best way for one to emotionally fulfill himself. Many people in marriages are not always happy. Many people are bound by religion and cultural beliefs. Otherwise, they would have divorced their spouses long time ago. There aren’t maximum emotion fulfillment in families. This explains why men drive themselves out the whole night. Instead of all these hustles, one can get into a side affair and fulfill his emotional requirements and live happier in his marriage life. If one of the couples is sick or unable to meet the sexual desires of a person the best thing to do is to get into an affair and sort yourselves out. Emotional fulfillment is the foundation of a happy and a longer life.
An affair is the best prevention measure of sexually transmitted infections. Married couples will always get out there to look for other people. Such people may even include prostitutes. This increases the risks of one contracting a sexually transmitted infection. This will not only endanger one’s life but also the life of the other partner. If one will not rush to a prostitute the other available way to fulfill himself is by asking a friend for sex. This happens mostly when people are drunk. In this state, one cannot control themselves. This can lead to unwanted pregnancies or even sexually transmitted infections.